So 1st off...2day has been a "it's whatever" kinda day for me...haven't felt like that in a while...maybe it's because it's raining...Idk...it's whatever.
2nd...why is that when dudes go through things...they feel like they are the only ones???? I mean...like...why is that? Like...whenever they are sad, depressed, upset, angry...whatever...and you ask them if they wanna talk about it, they wanna say "naw...I'm cool" but when we, the female go through sumthin, if we dnt tell them...they take offense. Now correct me if I'm wrong...but in any kind of relationship...friendship or otherwise...isn't it supposed 2 be at least 50-50? Meaning I got your back and you got mine? And I really hate it when I try to be there...and they push me away...but it's whatever.
3rd...y dnt dudes get the "it would just be nice" rule??? I mean...seriously...no it's not gonna make or break the relationship...but it would be NICE if u would do whatever it is every once in a while. I guess they'll never get it until the shoe is on the other foot. So...here's a nice little example 4 ya: Guys...let's say ur on a basketball team and you have a game EVERY Saturday at 5pm...your girl works EVERY Saturday from 8-4pm...now lets say your girl likes to nap after work so even though she's with you in spirit...she's never PHYSICALLY present at your games. Now...your girl not bein at your games isn't necessarily a big deal...not really an issue that can make or break your relationship...but...don't you think it would be NICE of her to occassionally skip her regular nap and be there to cheer you on at at least a few of your games????? You get it now? Yeah...that's how I feel.
2.17.2008
I Just Don't Get It...
Posted by Ms. Hill at 2:56 PM
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